Elopements 101:

Why They’re the Best Kept Secret in Weddings

🎉 It’s my birthday! 🎉

And what better way to celebrate than kicking off a brand-new series about one of my favorite things—elopements! (Well, that and cake. And my cats. And cake.) If you’ve ever wondered why couples are ditching the big ballroom for an intimate, wildly personal “just us” experience, keep reading. I’m about to convince you that elopements might just be the best wedding decision ever.

Elopements Give You Freedom (And Who Doesn’t Love That?)

Picture this: You’re standing on a mountain at sunrise, wind in your hair, about to say your vows with no stress, no audience, and no pressure to make sure your great-aunt’s third husband has a gluten-free meal option. That’s the magic of elopements—complete and total freedom. No rigid timelines, no seating charts, no awkward small talk with cousins you haven’t seen since 2003. Instead, you get to focus on what actually matters: marrying your person in a way that feels right for you.

The Stress Levels? Nonexistent.

Look, I love a big wedding as much as the next person (hello, built-in dance party!), but let’s be real—weddings can be stressful. There are about a thousand moving parts, and someone will have an opinion about literally everything. Elopements? Not so much. No bridal party politics. No worrying about who sits next to who. No overthinking whether you really need a five-tier cake when you actually just want donuts. Eloping allows you to strip away the extras and keep the focus on each other.

You Can Make It As Epic (or As Simple) As You Want

Here’s the best part: elopements don’t have to be a courthouse quickie (unless you want them to be—no judgment). They can be as adventurous or as laid-back as you want. Dreaming of exchanging vows on a windswept beach? Done. Hiking to a scenic overlook with your officiant? Absolutely. Saying “I do” in your backyard with just your dog as the witness? Honestly, iconic. Elopements are about making your wedding day yours—not about following traditions that don’t feel right for you.

If I Could Elope Anywhere…

Since it’s my birthday, let’s play a fun little game: If I were eloping today, where would I go? Somewhere dramatic, breathtaking, and worthy of a killer photo op, of course! Maybe an intimate vineyard in Italy. A misty Scottish castle. A mountaintop in the Rockies. Or, let’s be real, a quiet beach with a personal charcuterie board and a very good bottle of sparkling cider. The possibilities are endless—and that’s the beauty of elopements!

Let’s Make Your Elopement Unforgettable

If this post has you thinking, hmm… maybe eloping is the way to go, I’d love to help you make it happen. Whether you’re dreaming of a mountaintop adventure or a cozy backyard ceremony, I’ll be there to capture every real, joyful, and tear-filled moment. Reach out, and let’s chat about your dream elopement—I promise to bring all the good vibes and none of the judgment (even if you do still want that five-tier cake).